My first working Christmas

 

 Being a country without many friends or family can often be emotionally challenging during the holidays, but in China there is plenty of work to keep the mind far from emotions.  A few side weekend trips are helpful too.  Last weekend I cooked a dish called Gong Bao Ji Ding, (which means chicken dish fit for the palace guardian).  My language teacher took me and a few other students to a small city outside of Wuhan for a day of markets, cooking, and hot springs. 

Before hot springs we had to negotiate all of the ingredients in our dishes at the open markets with a little more than $3 on hand.  I thought this would be impossible for me, but I ended up doing better at bargaining than the Chinese in our group.  It helped that I was willing to take advice from a woman cutting and selling fresh dog in addition to many other common pets at her stand. 

There are many crowds this time of year for shopping.  They have deals at all shopping centers from 6 PM to 3 AM on Christmas Eve.  For Christmas one of the teachers at the school gave me a beautiful red scarf that took her 22 hours to knit.  Another teacher presented me an apple because the presentation of an apple, (pinguo), is similar to a presentation of peace, (pin pin an an).  

Despite the work and planning for January’s big eight straight days with the teachers time, I got the BEST Christmas present just a few days before the holiday.  My sister-in-law gave birth to my niece about three weeks earlier than expected.  Both mom and baby are doing well and I’ve thoroughly enjoyed my skype sessions with her. 

I asked my family what they got for Christmas this year, and here are their responses:

older brother:  a new baby
Mother:  a granddaughter
younger brother:  a new niece
Father:  a granddaughter
Sister-in-law:  a daughter
My brother's dogs:  competition/sibling rivalry

I'm delighted to be an aunt.  My new niece has my face with her mother's beautiful full lips.  She already has everyone wrapped around her tiny finger.  Until I get to see her in about a month, I may enjoy a few more weekend adventures.  I'll start this weekend with a foreign teacher's Festivus celebration.  A good Festivus will help cleanse the mind of any grievances and start a fresh 2014!